We present an open-source software package, VAN-DAMME (Versatile Approaches to Numerically Design, Accelerate, and Manipulate Magnetic Excitations), for massively-parallelized quantum optimal control (QOC) calculations of multi-qubit systems. To enable large QOC calculations, the VAN-DAMME software package utilizes symmetry-based techniques with custom GPU-enhanced algorithms. This combined approach allows for the simultaneous computation of hundreds of matrix exponential propagators that efficiently leverage the intra-GPU parallelism found in high-performance GPUs. In addition, to maximize the computational efficiency of the VAN-DAMME code, we carried out several extensive tests on data layout, computational complexity, memory requirements, and performance. These extensive analyses allowed us to develop computationally efficient approaches for evaluating complex-valued matrix exponential propagators based on Padé approximants. To assess the computational performance of our GPU-accelerated VAN-DAMME code, we carried out QOC calculations of systems containing 10 - 15 qubits, which showed that our GPU implementation is 18.4× faster than the corresponding CPU implementation. Our GPU-accelerated enhancements allow efficient calculations of multi-qubit systems, which can be used for the efficient implementation of QOC applications across multiple domains. Program summary: Program Title: VAN-DAMME CPC Library link to program files:: https://doi.org/10.17632/zcgw2n5bjf.1 Licensing provisions: GNU General Public License 3 Programming language: C++ and CUDA Nature of problem: The VAN-DAMME software package utilizes GPU-accelerated routines and new algorithmic improvements to compute optimized time-dependent magnetic fields that can drive a system from a known initial qubit configuration to a specified target state with a large (≈1) transition probability. Solution method: Quantum control, GPU acceleration, analytic gradients, matrix exponential, and gradient ascent optimization.